Tip. 1. Read the Signs
The first tip suggests that happiness is not that difficult to find – as long as you are able to follow the signs it occasionally playfully sends to you. What signs? – you may ask? We're not playing any games here, we're seriously looking for happiness, after all! That's true, however, you should keep in mind that Happiness' character traits are not as simple as you'd like them to be...
Happiness seems to be a very eccentric creature which gets awfully bored if someone just plainly tastelessly finds it. It always aches to spice up the process of your search with tons of hardships or millions of obstacles. It can also send its devious 'twin-brothers' to make the whole thing even more difficult for you (see the section about Pseudo Happiness).
However, sometimes Happiness mercifully gives you numerous hints at its possible locations. They are so subtle and confusing that you hardly ever notice them or just refuse to see them as feasible inspiration to your further actions. Sometimes it's just much more convenient for you to view these prompts as random coincidences because if you treat them as something serious you will have to move your ass much faster than you used to. Everybody wants to be happy, it's just that not everyone is able to fight for their happiness till the end. Such a paradoxically confusing truth, isn't it? In any case, all's fair – if you want to be happy – do not be afraid to fight for it.
Now let's switch directly to the issue of signs for Happiness may save some for you too. These signs can be united by one general name and it's 'Non Stop Luck'. What does it mean? Imagine the situation. You have just got promoted at work – even though the finger of choice had been facing a few colleagues of yours as well. You decide to celebrate this memorable event and arrange a huge party at your place. There a friend of yours introduces you to one gorgeous woman who instantly falls for you. Needless to say 'where' you fall in this very gorgeous situation – you fall in love of course!
Eventually you find out that your Lady's father is the biggest fish in your city and he – thanks to her of course but so what! – is eager to interview you for a very beneficial job, the one where you will not only be able to realize your huge potential but where you'll also earn a lot of money. Wow! Looks like you recently signed a contract with the devil himself. And then – naturally – you turned into his Lucky relative.
If you are exceptional enough to find yourself in the heart of such amazing luck, or if you just have a justified feeling that Lady Luck has been earthily flirting with you for some time, all you need is not to passively let these signs pass you by. You know why? Because Happiness itself sends them to you, and believe us, it eagerly awaits your active response. If you are smart enough to react to these messages of destiny properly, you will be generously rewarded by your flirty Lady Luck and her best friend Happiness.
What does reacting properly to the signs of Happiness mean? It's all simple – once you feel that you get lucky at work, start working even harder and i.e. better. If you're lucky in love (and got the winning touch ;) put even more effort in making your lovelife's colours brighter! Forget about your prejudices or fears, stop being all passive! Happiness is waiting at your door! Get up outta your seat, - why don't you do somethin'??